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Welcome to Bill Lee-Emery's 'On Track' ezine! |
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Now I don't know who wrote this but it can be a useful guide when you think of the people who come into your life, whether they be family, friends, clients, colleagues, lovers or strangers.
Are you a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for
each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally,
or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for
the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise
is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The
prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come
to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love
is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
The point is that regardless of who comes into your life and what they bring, it is possible (not always easy!) to gain in knowledge and wisdom. And when I reflect on my life, some of the most valuable lessons have come from the most disguised teachers!
So, back to the bunnies. Enjoy the Easter break - may it be safe, relaxing and fun. |